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Memory - a sign of getting older, or a link with our mental health?

Writer's picture: CarlaCarla

Updated: Jan 21

Have you ever gone to the shops and forgotten why you went there in the first place? Or maybe you’ve missed an appointment, forgotten to text a friend back, or struggled to remember a task at work? These moments can feel frustrating and even worrying. I have been there! They’re a normal part of life for many, but when they happen often, or start to get worse, or even appear out of the blue, they can lead to concerns about memory and what might be causing the lapses.


We often think of our memory a bit like a hard drive on a computer believing that everything we put there should be stored and accesible at all times. We also think when we do access our memories, that they should always be reliable and consistent and this isn't always true.


Memory is something we all rely on daily, from recalling where we left our keys to navigating complex tasks at work. Yet, for many people, struggles with memory can be a source of concern, especially when accompanied by worries about cognitive decline as we age. Understanding how mental health impacts memory can help ease some of these fears and pave the way to seeking appropriate support.


The Link Between Mental Health and Memory

Mental health conditions like anxiety, depression, and stress have a profound influence on memory. These conditions can make it harder to focus, retain information, and recall details when needed. If we struggle to pay attention or focus, the brain wont be able to retain what is going on. For example:


  • Stress: Chronic stress floods the brain with cortisol, which can impair the hippocampus—the part of the brain responsible for forming and retrieving memories. Over time, high cortisol levels can shrink the hippocampus, reducing its efficiency.

  • Depression: Depression is associated with reduced activity in the prefrontal cortex, a region critical for working memory and decision-making. Additionally, neurochemical imbalances in serotonin and dopamine can disrupt the brain's ability to process and store memories effectively.

  • Anxiety: Persistent worry and hypervigilance can overstimulate the amygdala, the brain's emotional processing centre, leading to difficulty concentrating and encoding new memories.


These memory challenges are often temporary and improve as mental health stabilises, but they can still cause significant distress. People experiencing memory issues may fear they’re facing early signs of dementia or other cognitive disorders.


When Memory Issues Might Signal Cognitive Decline

Cognitive decline refers to a gradual decrease in cognitive abilities, including memory. While this can occur as part of normal ageing, significant or rapid changes may signal conditions like dementia. Neurobiologically, dementia often involves the accumulation of proteins such as beta-amyloid plaques and tau tangles in the brain, which disrupt neural communication and lead to cell death.


Signs of cognitive decline may include:

  • Forgetting common words or the names of close friends and family.

  • Struggling to follow conversations or familiar instructions.

  • Difficulty completing tasks that were once routine, such as managing finances or cooking.


It is important to note that these things don't necessarily signify cognitive decline, but it might be worth getting checked out.


Could It Be ADHD?

Another factor to consider is Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Though commonly associated with children, ADHD often persists into adulthood and can sometimes be mistaken for memory problems. From a neurobiological perspective, ADHD involves dysregulation of dopamine pathways in the prefrontal cortex, impairing executive functions like working memory, organisation, and focus.


Adults with ADHD may experience:

  • Poor short-term memory, such as forgetting why they walked into a room.

  • Difficulty organising or prioritising tasks.

  • Feeling easily distracted and struggling to stay focused.


ADHD symptoms can overlap with those caused by mental health conditions, making a professional assessment crucial.


How Does Menopause Impact Memory?

Menopause often brings with it a range of physical and emotional changes, and for many women, memory challenges can be one of them. Commonly referred to as "menopause brain" or "brain fog," these cognitive changes can make it harder to concentrate, recall information, or stay organised.


I remember vividly a time during menopause when I genuinely thought I might have dementia. I kept forgetting the simplest things – like why I’d walked into a room or where I’d left my car keys – and it felt so unlike me. One day, I even forgot a close friend's name during a conversation. The fear was real, and for a while, I found myself overthinking every lapse, wondering if it was something more serious.


These experiences can take a toll on mental health. The fluctuations in oestrogen levels during menopause are thought to play a significant role in memory issues. Oestrogen supports various brain functions, including those related to memory and verbal skills. As levels decrease, some women may notice lapses in short-term memory or feel less sharp mentally.


However, memory lapses often come with an emotional weight, as they can lead to feelings of frustration, anxiety, or even self-doubt. For me, the fear of something being seriously wrong led to heightened stress, which only made the symptoms worse. This cycle is not uncommon, as the cognitive and emotional changes associated with menopause are deeply intertwined.


It's important to remember that these changes are typically temporary and vary from person to person. Once I learned about the link between menopause and memory, it was a huge relief. Stress, sleep disturbances, and other symptoms like hot flushes can further impact cognitive and emotional well-being. Addressing these factors through strategies such as maintaining a healthy diet, engaging in regular physical activity, practising mindfulness, and ensuring quality sleep can have a positive impact on both memory and mood.


How Psychology Can Help

If you’re concerned about memory issues, psychology offers various ways to help:


  1. Assessment: Psychologists like myself, can provide cognitive and psychological assessments to determine the root cause of memory problems. These assessments may include standardised tests to evaluate memory, attention, and executive function, alongside neurobiological markers like reaction time and processing speed.

  2. Therapeutic Support: Therapy can address underlying mental health conditions that may be contributing to memory issues. For example, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) is effective for managing anxiety and depression by restructuring unhelpful thought patterns and reducing emotional strain on cognitive processes.

  3. Coping Strategies: Psychologists can teach techniques to improve memory and focus, such as mindfulness, stress management, and organisational tools. Mindfulness, for instance, has been shown to increase grey matter density in the hippocampus, enhancing memory capacity over time.

  4. Guidance and Referrals: If a psychologist identifies signs of cognitive decline or ADHD, they can guide you toward further evaluations and treatments. This might involve collaboration with neurologists or psychiatrists to explore medication options or deeper diagnostic testing.


Strategies to Improve Memory and Recall

If you're looking to strengthen your memory and recall, there are practical steps you can take. These strategies combine lifestyle changes, cognitive exercises, and psychological techniques to enhance your brain's performance:


1. Get Adequate Sleep

  • Sleep plays a critical role in memory consolidation. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night to allow your brain to process and store information effectively.

2. Practice Mindfulness and Meditation

  • Mindfulness can improve focus and reduce stress, which are essential for better memory. Meditation has been shown to enhance grey matter in the hippocampus, aiding memory retention.

3. Use Mnemonic Devices

  • Techniques like acronyms, rhymes, or visual imagery can help you remember lists, names, or other detailed information.

4. Break Information into Chunks

  • The brain processes information better in smaller chunks. For example, break a long sequence of numbers into groups to make them easier to remember.

5. Stay Physically Active

  • Regular exercise increases blood flow to the brain and stimulates the release of neurotrophic factors that support memory and cognitive function.

6. Maintain a Healthy Diet

  • Nutrients like omega-3 fatty acids, antioxidants, and B vitamins are essential for brain health. Include foods like fish, nuts, leafy greens, and berries in your diet.

7. Engage in Mental Stimulation

  • Activities like puzzles, learning a new language, or playing a musical instrument can create new neural pathways and keep your brain sharp.

8. Stay Organised

  • Use tools like calendars, to-do lists, and apps to keep track of tasks and appointments. Keeping your physical space tidy can also reduce cognitive load.

9. Use Repetition and Practice

  • Repetition strengthens memory connections. For instance, reviewing names or facts multiple times can improve retention.

10. Limit Multitasking

  • Focus on one task at a time to give it your full attention. Multitasking can reduce your ability to encode memories effectively.

11. Connect Information to Emotions or Stories

  • Emotionally charged or narrative-based information is easier to remember. Try linking new knowledge to a personal experience or a vivid story.

12. Control Stress Levels

  • Chronic stress can impair memory. Practise relaxation techniques like deep breathing, yoga, or spending time in nature to manage stress effectively.

13. Learn Memory Techniques

  • Techniques like the method of loci (memory palace) involve associating information with specific locations or objects, making recall easier.

14. Build Social Connections

  • Engaging with friends and family keeps your mind active and provides emotional support, both of which benefit memory.

15. Seek Professional Support

  • If memory issues persist, consider working with a psychologist or cognitive specialist who can tailor strategies to your needs and conduct assessments if necessary.


By incorporating these strategies into your daily life, you can enhance your memory and overall cognitive health. Start small, and gradually build habits that work best for you!


When to Seek Help

It might be time to consult a professional if:

  • Memory problems are affecting your daily life or work performance.

  • You’re experiencing persistent feelings of stress, anxiety, or depression.

  • You’re worried about ADHD symptoms or cognitive decline.

  • Family or friends have noticed changes in your memory or behaviour.


Addressing these concerns early can provide clarity, support, and reassurance, enabling you to take proactive steps toward better mental health and cognitive function.


Final Thoughts

Memory issues can feel unsettling, especially when they disrupt your sense of safety, confidence, or performance at work. However, recognising that mental health, or other factors often play a significant role is an empowering first step and can help reduce worry. By seeking psychological support, you can better understand your symptoms, develop coping strategies, and regain a sense of control.


If you’re ready to explore how mental health and memory are connected please get in touch, as you don’t have to face these concerns alone .


Carla




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